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Intrigue & Curiosity:
“Your profile made me stop scrolling. That [mention something specific, e.g., hiking photo] looks amazing! Tell me more.”
“I have a feeling you have some great stories to tell. What’s one of the most interesting things you’ve done recently?”
“Okay, I’m intrigued by [mention something specific, e.g., your bio about loving vintage shops]. What’s your best find ever?”
“Spotted your profile and had to say hi. What’s been the highlight of your day so far?”
“There’s something about your vibe that caught my attention. What are you passionate about right now?”
Humorous & Playful:
“Are you secretly a superhero? Because your profile is pretty awesome.”
“My dog thinks your dog is cute. Just putting that out there.” (If they have a dog in their pics)
“Confession: I may have stalked your profile a little. But only because it’s awesome. 😉”
“If we were stranded on a desert island, what three things would you bring (besides the obvious water and snacks)?”
“Warning: I’m known to tell terrible puns. Proceed with caution. How’s your Sunday going?”
Complimentary & Engaging:
“That smile in your [specific photo] is contagious! What were you laughing about?”
“Your taste in [mention something specific, e.g., music, books] is fantastic! Any recommendations?”
“I love how [mention a specific detail, e.g., adventurous] your profile comes across. What’s your next adventure?”
“You seem like someone who appreciates [mention a shared interest if apparent]. What do you enjoy most about it?”
“Just wanted to say your profile is really well done. What are you looking for on here?”
Direct & Respectful:
“Hi [Her Name – if available]. I enjoyed reading your profile and thought we might have some things in common. How are you doing?”
“Hey! I’m [Your Name]. I’m looking to connect with interesting people, and your profile stood out. What are you up to?”
“Good evening! I hope you’re having a good weekend. What’s keeping you busy these days?”
“Hi there. I’m [Your Name]. I’m new to this/back on here. What’s your experience been like so far?”
“Hey [Her Name]. I’m looking for someone who [mention a quality you’re looking for that might be hinted at in her profile]. Does that resonate with you?”
Remember to:
Personalize it: Always try to reference something specific in her profile to show you’ve actually looked at it. Generic openers are less effective.
Keep it concise: Initial messages should be short and easy to respond to.
Ask open-ended questions: Encourage her to elaborate and share more about herself.
Be yourself: Authenticity is key! Choose an opener that feels natural to you.
Pay attention to her profile: Avoid asking questions that are already answered there.